Phil Bennett's Songwriter Blog

THE FARM - Home Sweet Home

2012-02-07T23:03:00.000-06:00

Check out this group. They are getting a lot of attention these days and they deserve it. Check out their youtube channel.

Peace,

Phil

"When I dream" by Phil Bennett

2012-01-31T17:55:00.001-06:00

I wanted to share another youtube video I made over the weekend. It's a song I wrote titled, "When I dream". I hope you enjoy it and I hope you are having a great week!

While you are there, subscribe to my youtube channel. I have 4 songs posted now.

Peace,

Phil

A testimonial by Robert K. Wolf

2012-01-25T20:55:00.001-06:00

I am an artist first. Here's a tiny bit of testimony. I'll word it as best as I can as it relates to a song I wrote on 23 Jan 2012 with Tim Bezy.

Being myself middle aged, there's a fairly lengthy thread of experience that resides in various levels of my consciousness. Depending on what day it is and what is experienced, certain, shall we say, highly charged segments of that experience will come to the surface. Our song managed to process a number of very intense events in my life and bring them up. I would say that, somehow, we filtered these events through the prism of the adage "Don't let the truth get in the way of a good song."; however, the effect remains. In 3 minutes and 9 seconds, I was given 27 years of therapy.

As a performing songwriter, I have been blessed with a work worthy of my playing live and recording. I did record it on 23 Jan 2012, on my laptop. There is no knowing what will happen with this song, but my gut tells me that it is going to touch people. Naysayers within and without, of course, will find reasons to say it's just another verse chorus verse chorus bridge solo half chorus tag, and I must move on to throwing more words on the canvas, keeping whatever objectivity I can. Time will unfold the outcome.

In the meantime, it's onward and upward. If you got this far, thank you for reading. If you happen to be an artist--and you are whether you realize it or not--keep getting it down no matter how much the critics and unkind circumstances bring you down. Keep moving and believing and loving what you do. I'll do the same and maybe we'll meet at a campfire down the road, enjoying each others' company and saluting this amazing thing called living.

Have the sweetest day you possibly can. That is my intention.

Robert K. Wolf

I just had to share this with you. Thanks for reading and keep doing what you.

Peace,

Phil

A songwriter's wish

2012-01-24T14:31:00.000-06:00

I read posts on facebook all the time and occasionally respond or click the "like" button. When I read this quote from a fellow songwriter, it hit me how perfectly she had put into words what most songwriters want.

"A writer's dream is to find a voice that gets excited about singing what they hear you singing as the creator, and knowing that that voice can probably make your song sound amazing!"

Sherry Bach

Thank you Sherry for making my day.

Peace,

Phil

Crappin' on the steps of the stadium

2012-01-21T15:27:00.001-06:00

I am a songwriter and also a sports fan. I wrote this song for all you sports fans out there. I have felt the immense pain of following a crappy team...I am a Kansas City Chiefs fan.

I channeled all this emotion into a simple song that explains what I want to do after the season.

I hope your team doesn't suck as bad as mine did ths year. If so, then you will like this song.

Peace,

Phil

Pass it on...

2012-01-07T15:46:00.003-06:00

Greetings and Happy New Year!!

I had to share this picture that was taken over the holidays. This is my Great Nephew Landon. I was tuning my nephew's guitar when Landon crawled over and pulled himslef up. My Niece snapped the picture just in time.

My hope is that I can pass my love of music and talents down the line and hopefully inspired the younger generation to follow their dreams. Won't you do the same?

Peace and joy,

Phil

Today's featured singer/songwriter Anna Johnson

2011-12-22T14:49:00.001-06:00

Once in a while I click on a link from facebook and listen to some music of a fellow songwriter. Most of the time I listen to few bars and move along to the next song. If I am bored in the first 30 seconds...I move along.

This week I had the pleasure to click on Anna Johnson's Reverbnation link from facebook. I hit play on the first song and was spellbound through the entire playlist. I was especially moved by a song she sang, Damaged & bruised. I HIGHLY recommend you taking the time to go listen to her music.

You won't be disappointed.

Peace, love and Merry Christmas!!!

Phil

Buck Johnson is incredible!

2011-12-12T12:31:00.000-06:00

Friday night we got invited to go see Buck Johnson at Hotel Indigo. I had met Buck once before but had never heard him sing. From the first song he proceeded to blow my mind. With just a guitar and a dobro player to accompany him, he impressed me with his songs, vocals and talent.

Now I have lived in Nashville for almost 10 years and I must say that Buck is one of the very best entertainers I have had the pleasure to hear. If you EVER get the chance to go see him and his band...do it!!!

Until then, drop by his music pages and listen to his latest music. I know you will enjoy.

Peace and joy,

Phil

Perseverance...

2011-11-21T12:58:00.000-06:00

per·se·ver·ance /pɜrsəˈvɪərəns/ noun

1. steady persistence in a course of action, a purpose, a state, etc., especially in spite of difficulties, obstacles, or discouragement.

I had to look this word up to make sure I was spelling it right...thank God for the internet.

It has been an incredibly hard month for our family, so my creative juices dried up about a 3 weeks ago. Family drama usually equals me not writing or playing my guitar until the drama goes away. But sometimes it is nice to take a break from the constant stream of lyrics and melodies running through my head. At least there has been some peace in my thoughts; almost like somebody turned the radio station off in my head.

Life is good and some wonderful things are happening in spite of the drama that was thrust upon us. My songplugger is getting two of my songs into some very famous hands. Hopefully this will lead to a cut in early 2012.

Just gotta keep going and keep trying. Don't use family drama or crisis as an excuse to stay where you are. Whatever obstacles come your way...sidestep them and keep going. Persevere!!!

Peace and joy,

Phil

Singer/songwriter Nicole Johnson is awesome!

2011-10-30T08:39:00.000-05:00

I first met Nicole a few years ago at a friend's house. Since then she has done some incredible things. I sit back and watch as she moves up and up and up the ladder. I cannot wait to see what she does next.

Take the time to check her out live or visit one of her music pages. You won't be disappointed at all. Keep up the good work Nicole!!

Peace,

Phil

Do it for the little ones...

2011-10-27T14:17:00.000-05:00

Say hello to John Allen Fisher. This is the latest addition to our family and he is the cutest little guy. His Dad Rusty Fisher is the Navy and is currently in Afghanistan. Rusty is coming back to the States in January.

As for little John Allen, he inspires me. Because when I have negative thoughts or wonder why things aren't going my way, I remember little John Allen. At the very least I can tell him all the stories of how long it took me to get a song cut or all the stories of paying my dues in the crappy dive bars. I got a million tales of what I have been through simply because I had a dream to follow. I would rather follow my dream down an uncertain, rocky, unknown path than anything else in the world.

Live every second of this life so you can inspire the little ones to follow their dreams. Do it for them!!

Peace and love,

Phil

October is the best!

2011-10-20T09:15:00.000-05:00

I have to take a break from songwriting stories to give some love to my St. Louis Cardinals. I have been a fan since I was old enough to listen to my Grandma's AM radio.

I love this time of year...especially when my Cardinals are in the playoffs.

Peace to all,

Phil

You will know Brad Long's name very soon.

2011-10-07T11:27:00.000-05:00

Just a brief post today. I came across an artist that you might enjoy. His name is Brad Long. Brad Long is an up and coming Country Music Recording artist with tons of talent. Check out bradlong.net to read what this guy has been up to and where he is headed.

That's it for now. Have a blessed weekend!

Phil

Joel Shewmake sings "Family Man" on youtube.

2011-09-08T12:29:00.001-05:00

I was doing my weekly search to find out what my favorite songwriters were up to, when I found a few youtube videos of Joel Shewmake singings his songs. It was great to hear him sing "Family Man", which was cowritten with Craig Campbell and Jon Henderson.

Give it a watch and a listen. Good job Joel!!

Peace,

Phil

Martina Mcbride sings "Somewhere over the rainbow" at the 2011 MDA Telethon

2011-09-05T09:11:00.000-05:00

She never ceases to amaze me! she can deliver a song and move me like few others can. This was Martina singing for the 2011 MDA Telethon last night. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

Love, joy and peace to all,

Phil

The Daily Bread Adventure...

2011-08-29T12:26:00.000-05:00

My daughter Cagney and her husband Alex have taken off on an adventure. It is really very inspiring. They sold the majority of their possessions, rented out their house and headed out to help as many people as they could.

The first leg of their journey was to Tennessee, but I am sure it won't be the only leg of their journey. Go to their blog and keep track of their adventure.

Peace and joy,

Phil

The mountains are calling...

2011-08-11T07:24:00.000-05:00

In the Smokey Mountains you can find peace, solitude and beauty. The air is cleaner and smells fresh. You can see for miles and miles which helps me to find perspective. Gratitude must be in the mountains because I am more grateful when I am there. Hope must live there as well. Maybe even happiness, but I manage to keep that with me most the time. I know there is music in the mountains because I always come back with a new song in my head.

When my daughter told me they were going to the mountains, I said, "Tell God I said Hello." I know he lives there too.

Peace and love,

Phil

"When I dream" by Phil Bennett

2011-07-05T18:20:00.001-05:00

Good afternoon and happy 4th of July! I was able to record a few demos this past weekend and wanted to share them with you. I hope you enjoy listening to them as much as I enjoyed making them.

Have a blessed week,

Phil

Life is good in Biloxi, Mississippi!

2011-06-16T13:56:00.001-05:00

Just back from vacation to the beautiful gulf coast area. It was so peaceful and HOT!! The food was awesome and the beaches were perfect. I wish I had won a few bucks at the casino, but we had a blast either way.

Biloxi, MS is a great place to get away if you don't want all the hassle of a Florida beach. From a songwriter's perspective...you could find a spot on a Biloxi beach where you could have privacy, write some tunes and drink a couple and not have to worry about being stampeded by a tribe of ghost-white suburbanite vacationers. Biloxi truly has an "Artist" vibe. I highly recommend this place. Check out downtown Ocean Springs too, specifically Government Street Grocery. The food and staff were amazing.

Until next time...peace!

Phil

Stay the course...

2011-06-12T11:43:00.000-05:00

Be grateful, ignore doubt, love the moment you are in, visualize your dream and by all means...stay the course you have chosen.

Be blessed,

Phil

Happy Birthday Jeff!

2011-06-07T12:39:00.000-05:00

This is a repost from a couple years back. Today is Jeff Allwood's Birthday and I just wanted to share my story of how we met. He was such a wonderful guy.

Let me tell you how I had the pleasure of meeting Jeff Allwood.

I met Joe Allwood on the first day of kindergarten waiting for the bus. We were best friends all through school and graduated together. Joe's little brother Jeff was always there with us after school and on the lucky weekends when I got to stay the night at their house. Jeff, Joe, Johnny Warren and I sang in a barbershop quartet in high school. Their Mother Judy Allwood was my music teacher starting in third grade until I graduated. Their Dad was our high school principal. They were truly my extended family.

Jeff, Joe and I were like the three stooges at times. We would laugh and joke until we ran out of laughter, take a break and do it all over again. When I was 17, we started a country band and Jeff played lead guitar. We played several gigs together, including one for the entire Clopton High School where I graduated.

Jeff taught himself to play guitar, piano and eventually any instrument with strings. He was probably the most talented musician I have had the privilege to share a stage with, an event that happened way too infrequently. But I cherish every second I spent with the other two stooges.

Miss Judy was our biggest fan. She said our harmony was like that family harmony that is so rare. I have not sang with the Allwood brothers since the late 90's I guess. I always thought we would do a reunion show at our old high school when we were old, gray and wildly successful.

That show will have to be in some other place and time because Jeff passed away March 20th, 2009. He was an inspiration to us all by always pursuing his dream of playing music for a living, which is all he ever did.

I am going to miss my friend. Life is short folks, don't waste a second.

Peace and love to all,

Phil

You can do it!!

2011-05-22T11:59:00.002-05:00

I once read an article that said it takes an average of 8 years to be successful as an artist or songwriter in Nashville. I don't read that magazine anymore.

Like I said in an earlier post, our job is to believe. Look, I didn't dream about being a songwriter all my life, preparing my move to Nashville, landing the job that got me here, packing all my stuff to head south, writing more songs, honing my craft and doing all the things to be successful, just to have someone tell me I haven't been here long enough.

To me it is a simple list: write it, record it, sing the hell out of it. If I focus on these three things...the rest will work itself out. A song will find its artist just like two soul mates.

I believe, I believe, I believe.

Peace and keep the faith,

Phil

A story from Songwriter Chuck Cannon

2011-05-09T10:33:00.000-05:00

Several months ago, I read some quotes on Facebook that were attributed to songwriter Chuck Cannon. I really wanted to use them in a blog post, but I needed permission from Chuck and I also wanted to get the story behind the quotes. So I dropped him a line and asked his permission to post the quotes on my blog. I asked him what the actual quotes were and where did they come from. He was kind enough to email me back with the story of where these wonderful quotes came from.

The following came from Chuck's email to me about a conversation he had with the amazing Janis Ian:

"...it was early on in my career and she was very open and supportive ... we were sitting at a table in the bluebird cafe and someone said, "If you want to write good songs write about what you know". And Janis said, "If you want to write great songs, write what you don't want people to know about you". In an effort to be quick-witted I said, "Well then it would follow that if you want to write awesome songs, write what you don't want to know about yourself". Janis looked at me and said, "You're going to do just fine ..."

I LOVE it!! Thank you Chuck for letting me pass that along to my readers and fellow songwriters.

Peace and love to all,

Phil

Carrie Underwood with Vince Gill singing "How great thou art"

2011-04-23T09:12:00.000-05:00

I don't know if it can get any better than this. I knew this girl was good, but wow...she blew me away. Take the time too watch Carrie sing a classic.

Peace,

Phil

Thank you...again!

2011-04-15T08:27:00.000-05:00

The greatest thief of human happiness and abundance is ungratefulness.

Any lack in our lives - whether in money, health, or relationships - is simply the evidence of a lack of gratitude.

If you focus on lack you are not being grateful, and that will bring more lack into your life.

Yet the simple state of radiating gratitude summons everything to you.

From "The Secret" Scrolls.

How many muscles does it take to walk one step?

2011-03-14T09:23:00.001-05:00

I have read it takes approximately 200 muscles to take one single step. So with each step, the majority of us take 200 muscles for granted. Just like I took for granted my car would start this past Saturday morning when I hopped in it to run to the store. $500 later, it did start. It's human nature to forget about all the small things that happen in the course of a day.

So each day I will start out by saying "Thank you" 200 times to show my gratitude for just one single step. Then I will calculate how many muscles it takes to make coffee.

Peace and joy to all,

Phil

Today I feel blessed!

2011-03-11T11:56:00.000-06:00

Even though we had a flood last year, a tree crushed our porch a couple weeks ago and we can't quite seem to let go of winter...I feel blessed. I am grateful to be living in such a wonderful city. I hope everyone takes 15 seconds today to say "Thank you" to God for such a great life. Send prayers to those less fortunate as well.

Peace and joy today,

Phil

So close...

2011-02-28T09:58:00.000-06:00

Some very powerful storms came through our town of Franklin, TN a couple days ago. The winds brought down a very old tree and laid it ever so gently on our house. I swear the hand of God himself spared us from serious injury or death. Yet another reason to be grateful.

I hope all of you take the time today to live in today's precious moment. Life is too short not to.

Peace,

Phil

Joel Shewmake (my favorite songwriter) update

2011-02-23T08:19:00.000-06:00

Since I blogged about my favorite songwriter Joel Shewmake back in July of last year, he has had some serious success. "Family man", written by Joel is Craig Campbell's hit. Last I checked it was at #24. Plus I heard through the facebook grapevine that Brad Paisley just cut his song "Toothbrush".

I wish Joel continued success. He is the real deal!

Peace,

Phil

2011 MDA Muscle Walk

2011-02-14T14:02:00.001-06:00

Hi all,

It is official, I am the 2011 MDA Goodwill ambassador for Middle Tennessee and Southern Kentucky. So my first order of business is to raise a bunch of money at the MDA Muscle Walk. It will be held at Bridgestone Arena, March 19th. I have a team and I plan on really raising some cash in the next month.

Drop me a line at songmaker11@gmail.com if you have any questions about the event.

Peace,

Phil

2011-01-17T09:47:00.002-06:00

"Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that." Martin Luther King Jr.

Peace and love to all,

Phil

Battle Ground Brewery Songwriter night with Branan Logan

2011-01-06T11:34:00.000-06:00

We went to the Battle Ground Brewery in Franklin, TN last night. Branan Logan was hosting a songwriter night, so we dropped in and had a blast! Branan is a great songwriter, vocalist and a really nice guy. I really enjoyed visiting with him.
One of his special guests was Nichole Johnson. If you have not had the pleasure of hearing this young lady sing, you need to make sure you do. She is an incredible songwriter and vocalist. She has a great career ahead of her.
So if you have been wondering where to go in Franklin, TN during the week to get some awesome food, great beer and hear some amazing songwriters; come to the Battle Ground Brewery 108 Bridge Street Franklin, TN.

See you there,

Phil

Happy New Year

2010-12-31T10:11:00.000-06:00

“For last year's words belong to last year's language and next year's words await another voice.” T.S. Eliot

So many wonderful things happened this year and that is what I am focusing on. Even the flood brought us all closer together and caused us to not take anything for granted. So take this day to give thanks for friends, family, another year of happiness and all the blessings we have received this year.

Here is wishing all of you a happy, healthy, abundant New Year. Peace, love and joy to all,

Phil

"I'll be home for Christmas" written by Buck Ram

2010-12-24T15:53:00.001-06:00

This wonderful Christmas classic was written in 1943 by Buck Ram, Kim Gannon and Walter Kent, though Buck was the main lyricist. It's just more proof that one single song can affect so many lives.

Never give up on your dreams. May Santa bring you a great song this year. :)

Merry Christmas to all,

Phil

I'm dreamin' tonight of a place I love
Even more then I usually do
And although I know it's a long road back
I promise you

I'll be home for Christmas
You can count on me
Please have snow and mistletoe
And presents under the tree
Christmas Eve will find me
Where the love light beams
I'll be home for Christmas
If only in my dreams

Christmas Eve will find me
Where the love light beams
I'll be home for Christmas
If only in my dreams.

Believing is everything!

2010-12-02T11:08:00.002-06:00

This is a repost from about a year ago, but it is one of my favorite inspirational posts of mine.

As songwriters, we spend way too much time and energy worrying about "how" we are going to get to where we want to be. We read books, do market research and worry about how to get our songs in the right hands. Here's the problem from a songwriter's perspective.

Now my ultimate goal is to write a song that 1) Gets recorded 2) Gets released 3) Gets to #1 4) Gets nominated for song of the year 5) WINS!! So now that I have that settled, I have two things I must do; write that song and believe it will happen. It is really that simple.

For example, I can waste an entire day/week creating online profiles, uploading music and networking. It's beneficial to have an online presence and you also need an EPK (electronic press kit) for your business card or correspondence, but I forget sometimes to get in my quiet room, write and just simply believe.

I don't care if you say God/Spirit/Universe/Allah/Jesus, there is a spiritual aspect to our lives and we cannot afford to get so busy that we forget to simply believe. If you believe in your music, believe that God will supply the rest.

I believe in Divine intervention. I believe God will put the right person on my path so I stumble over them, a demo CD falls out of my coat pocket and lands on the radio. It's that simple.

You are not climbing this mountain alone. In the words of Wayne Dyer, "If you knew who walked beside you at all times on this path that you have chosen, you could never acheive this fear and doubt again".

Pick a dream...be specific...and BELIEVE.

Until next time, keep the faith.

Phil

songmaker11@gmail.com

Judy Rodman...shared from her Facebook.

2010-11-27T11:11:00.002-06:00

Judy Rodman is a vocal coach, creator of pro vocal training method "Power, Path & Performance", an award-winning recording artist, stage and television performer, multi-genre hit songwriter with song catalogs at BMG, Universal, Warner Music, Chrysalis Music and Favorable Wind Songs, a top session singer, and a very active studio producer and vocal consultant.

Judy is a published author with two music blogs at www.judyrodman.com and www.judyrodmanproductions.com and over 60 articles at www.ezinearticles.com . Her blogposts and articles have appeared in magazines and websites such as Vocals Magazine, Indie Connect Magazine, Music After 50, Nashville Music Pros, A2Z Vocal Coach ezine, Music Competition Network ezine and many more. She developed and hosts “All Things Vocal” internet radio show, gives advanced workshops on the voice and vocal production, and is an active member of AFTRA, SAG and AFofM.

Judy's students include top recording artists and indie musicians. Her latest songwriting success is a song she co-wrote with Michael Black titled "Missing Child". Judy produced the cut on pop artist Emil Bishaw; his recording and the accompanying video has been featured on Nancy Grace and appears on the CNN website. Her latest creative enterprise is creating and hosting her own internet show "All Things Vocal Radio" which plays to international audiences on www.New Artist Radio.net.

For specific credits, go to her website about page http://judyrodman.com/about.htm

Two words...Thank you!

2010-11-24T09:17:00.003-06:00

The decision to live in gratitude has changed my life over the past couple years. Kristi and I were looking at a list we made a year and a half ago...a list of goals. I was blown away by how many things we were able to mark off the list. So when you walk through our house you will notice we have gratitude paintings and thank you notes all over the place to remind us to give thanks every minute of every day.

It is simple to me. The more you thank God for the things in your life, the more he sends you things to be thankful for. I will borrow a passage from an email that was sent to me from My wonderful sister-in-law Karen. It is so fitting for Thanksgiving week.

"Remember, if you are criticizing, you are not being grateful. If you are blaming, you are not being grateful. If you are complaining, you are not being grateful. If you are feeling tension, you are not being grateful. If you are rushing or are in a bad mood, you are not being grateful. Gratitude can transform your life. Are you allowing minor things to get in the way of your transformation and the life you deserve?"

Thank you all for reading my blog and thank God for another year of blessings.

Love and peace,

Phil

Allow your soul the freedom to sing

2010-11-13T11:37:00.003-06:00

May today there be peace within.
May you trust that you are exactly where you are meant to be.
May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith in yourself and others.
May you use the gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you.
May you be content with yourself just the way you are.
Allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love.

I was told this was written by Mother Theresa and I just wanted to share it with you all.

Bless you all today,

Phil

A perfectly written song to honor our veterans.

2010-11-11T09:34:00.001-06:00

Thank you Jimmy Fortune for writing such a song and thank you Veterans.

Phil

I thank God for such beauty...

2010-11-04T14:50:00.002-05:00

We just got back from a short road trip to the Great Smoky Mountains. If you have never drove up the Blue Ridge Parkway, you have missed a million wonderful sights. From Nashville, TN it is about a 6-7 hour drive to some of the most beautiful scenery in the world.

What does all this have to do with songwriting? For me it is inspiring. Looking at a gigantic range of mountains, I feel close to God and therefore closer to the source of all my inspiration. God=Beauty=inspiration

Just thought I would share one of my pictures. I hope you are able to see these mountains for yourself...soon.

Peace and love,

Phil

Mr. and Mrs. Mitchell Bennett

2010-10-05T09:28:00.002-05:00

That's right folks, my son got married this weekend. The happy couple planned the perfect wedding and I enjoyed every moment of it. The weather was picture perfect as was the venue. I didn't want the party to end.

Congratulations to my awesome Son Mitch and his wonderful bride Kelly.

I love you both very much!!!

Dad

Support MDA! They support me!

2010-09-02T12:16:00.003-05:00

Well, it's hard to believe it is that time of year again. Time for the annual MDA Labor Day Telethon. I have been watching this for years and will continue to watch.

When I was young, I knew there was something different about Grandpa. He walked funny and had some other quirks. Nobody in the family knew what was wrong with him and he never went to the doctor to find out. His son, my Uncle, also showed signs of the ailment, but they didn't do anything to find out what the problem was.

So when I was in my late teens, I started noticing some muscle weakness in my shoulders and legs. In my early twenties I decided to find a doctor that could tell me what was going on. After several trips to several different doctors, I finally wound up at the MDA Clinic. They diagnosed me with Fascioscapulohumeral Dystrophy. Finally the family mystery was solved.

Now I am in my 40's and living life to the fullest. MDA has always been there to help and someday soon...very soon...they will have a treatment/cure for this disease. Luckily for me, FSHD is a somewhat mild form of Muscular Dystrophy and I expect to live a long, happy life. But there are daily challenges in my world.

I don't know why God chose to make me this way. But I am sure he had a reason. I may never run a marathon, but running is overrated anyway...haha.

Peace and joy to all,

Phil

Ghost In The Machine - "Never Trust A Pirate" Official Music Video

2010-08-12T13:14:00.002-05:00

This is different from anything I have posted in the past. My nephew's metal band Ghost in the machine released the video to their song, "Never trust a pirate". It is definately worth a look...maybe even two.

I hope you enjoy it and I warn you, it's not Country. But it's awesome!!

Phil

Johanna Jacobsen...the coolest songwriter I never met.

2010-08-09T08:54:00.003-05:00

I was browsing through ourstage.com a couple years ago and ran across Johanna and her song, "Walking into walls". I immediately put the song in my favorites and after listening to all her other music, she became one of my favorites.

Since then I have kept in touch with her through myspace, reverbnation and facebook. This week I found out through her facebook page that she just got one of her songs cut and I couldn't be happier for the coolest songwriter I never met.

Keep up the good work Johanna!!!

Peace,

Phil

Keep your head up!!

2010-08-06T09:26:00.003-05:00

If you read many stories in my blog, you know I don't ramble about the music business much. I basically post whatever is on my mind and I am not going to change that. It is important to not focus on the negative factors of the music business, but remain aware of them. Enjoy the journey and don't worry about the potholes. Like I have always said, if it was easy, anyone could do it.

This is your dream, you didn't choose it...it chose you. I have often said that I sometimes wish my dream was to be a doctor. It's simple! 1. Go to school. 2. Get a Doctorate degree 3.Pass all your tests...BOOM!! You're a Doctor.

But I am a songwriter. That's the dream that has been floating in my head since I first laid hands on my Bugs Bunny guitar at the age of 2. The good news is it can be as simple or as hard as you want it to be. I choose to focus on the good and try to write good music. Worry only blocks creativity and creativity is a songwriter's fuel.

Peace and joy,

Phil

Hank Cochran...a true songwriting genius.

2010-07-16T12:07:00.003-05:00

I am ashamed to say that I did not realize just how many songs Hank Cochran wrote. The list is astonishing. But "I fall to pieces" and "Make the world go away" are probably my favorites. Well, maybe "Don't you ever get tired of hurting me" or "Is it raining at your house" or...well you get the idea. The list is enormous.

So here's to Hank Cochran and his legacy. I'm sorry I never got to meet you, but I will sing your songs until I die.

God bless you,

Phil

My favorite songwriter, Joel Shewmake...

2010-07-12T10:24:00.002-05:00

If you ever get the chance to hear Joel, drop your other plans and do it. I have been listening to this guy ever since I moved to Nashville in 2002. He just has a way of getting his thoughts across that is different from everybody else. He has truly inspired me to be a better songwriter. I finally got to thank him last night when he played at The Commodore Grill.

Drop by his myspace page and give him a listen. I promise you will like it.

Peace,

Phil

Come join us at The Whistle Stop & The Commodore

2010-07-06T08:18:00.002-05:00

My cousin CT Robinson and I are doing two shows this weekend. Saturday night, July 10th, we will be at The Whistle Stop Diner in Thompson Station. We play from 6-9 pm. Come out and join us for some great food, drinks and music. It is located at 1549 Thompson Station Rd W, Thompson Station, TN 37179.

Sunday night, July 11th, we are doing a round at The Commodore Grill, 2613 West End Avenue, Nashville, TN 37203. Debi Champion has hosted this songwriter night for as long as I remember. If you have never been, well I think it is time you did. We go on at 8:30.

Have a great week and keep those cards and letters coming.

Peace,

Phil

Karmen & Jared sittin in a tree...

2010-06-25T08:42:00.002-05:00

I just wanted to send my love to my amazing Niece Karmen and her new husband Jared. They got married in Hawaii earlier this month, but the celebration is this weekend. I can't wait to party with my family this weekend.

I love you both!!

Uncle Phil

The Whistle Stop Diner in Thompson's Station, TN

2010-06-12T20:18:00.005-05:00

Kristi and I were out wandering around Williamson County Thursday afternoon and found the coolest place. It's call The Whistle Stop Diner and it's in Thompson's Station, TN just south of Franklin. What a great atmosphere and menu!

It it one of those places you will want to visit on a regular basis. The food was awesome and the service was great. We started off with fried green tomatoes and fried dill pickles. For the entree, I had the ribs and Kristi had the catfish. I had to steal some catfish from Kristi and I have to say that it was amazing.

The most unexpected bonus was the entertainment. The band Coaltrain played acoustic versions of their originals and cover tunes. I was most impressed with the guys and their talent. They were even cool enough to let me get up and sing a song.

I highly recommend this place for lunch or dinner. I know we will be back soon. So go see them and tell them Phil sent you.

Peace and love,

Phil

Wintley Phipps and his story about "Amazing Grace"

2010-05-29T09:37:00.001-05:00

This should give you chills. What a performance!

The Preacher's Kid

2010-05-28T14:58:00.002-05:00

The Preacher's Kid
By Phil Bennett
The preacher's kid sat in the second row and sang "Amazing Grace"
He listened to the words his Daddy spoke...still in his place.
I always wondered if they actually listened to him speak
then why did they only live it one day a week.
Never knew how he couldn't see
That I needed him more than the sinners on Sunday.
They were a lost cause anyway.
I was not a sinner yet, maybe I needed to be
to get what I needed from him.
In many ways, he was a hero to me
And I wanted to be like him and not them.
I always knew he was doing the best he could
He didn't know any other way.
I still remember the sermons he preached
He felt it and tried his best to live it,
but he couldn't get them to see and it finally got the best of him.
"Don't you ever give up on God," he would say.
I listened, but they never did.
And in a million ways, because of him
the preacher's kid is a better man today.

Every time I think of giving up...I read this from Wayne Dyer

2010-05-05T12:19:00.003-05:00

"Don't die with your music still in you. Find your passion. Your passion is what stirs your soul and makes you feel like you're totally in harmony with why you showed up here in the first place." - Dr. Wayne Dyer

It makes me want to pick my guitar up, stop whining and write what is in my soul. It's that simple to me.

Peace and joy,

Phil

One day it started raining and didn't stop...

2010-05-03T09:28:00.004-05:00

Saturday morning started like many others...there was storms moving into the Nashville area. We didn't put that much thought into the forecast other than changing our plans from outdoors to indoors. Little did we know what was in store for us. In the next 36-40 hours, our town of Franklin, TN would get 15 inches of rain. Nashville got about 13 which more than doubled the record set in 1979.

This is a picture of our back yard. It came two feet from getting in the house. We were very fortunate especially when you consider people just down the road were under water. Friends of mine had 7 feet of water in their house. Long story short, it finally quit raining last night...nearly two days later.

The best news is the mama cardinal sat on her nest through the entire storm. Babies are doing fine. Mama Cardinal will be nominated for the "Mama of the Year" award.

So, appreciate what you have, be thankful every minute of everyday. Love like there is no tomorrow and always, always thank God for everything.

Peace and love,

Phil

I guess birds love me!!

2010-04-24T14:15:00.002-05:00

Last year about this time I documented the mama and daddy robins raising birds in a planter on my front porch. The blog post was titled, "From death comes life". Well, this year in our new house in Franklin, I have a mama cardinal sitting on her nest of eggs just outside the window of our office.

I hope to post many more pictures of this event. Check back often.

Peace,

Phil

Nile Peaytt...Quite a guy!

2010-04-02T17:32:00.004-05:00

Hello folks and Happy Easter.
I want to introduce you to Nile Peaytt. I found out about him through Facebook and Myspace. He is a Nashville songwriter among many other things, but I know him best as cancer's worst nightmare. This guy has dedicated his life to helping kids with who have cancer. Nile's wife Wendy died of cancer March 29th, 2005 which is why he spends so much of his time raising money, visiting kids in the hospital or helping families who have been affected by this disease.

His website and all contact information can be found at www.nilepeaytt.com or www.songsforthecure.org or wwww.myspace.com/npeayttmusic

Please, please drop him a line and wish him well. Best of luck Nile. Now if we could just do something about that Yankees hat...hahaha. (Cards fan here)

Peace, joy and hope,

Phil

"Every time two fools collide" Songwriter Jan Dyer

2010-03-06T09:25:00.003-06:00

The first thing I noticed when I walked into Jan Dyer's house was a gold record hanging on the wall. I didn't want to seem too obvious so I just kept glancing at it out of the corner of my eye. It is an amazing thing to see. Kenny Rogers and Dottie West recorded "Everytime two fools collide" in 1978 which Jan co-wrote. I have had the pleasure of hearing Jan sing it several times.

That day was awesome. The collection of songwriters she welcomed into her home for a gumbo feast was amazing as was the gumbo. It was such a wonderful day of music, food and friendship. I hope there are many more events like this in the future.

As for Jan, she is a wonderful, down-home person that doesn't know a stranger. She continues to write and perform. I am sure 2010 will bring Jan an abundance of success. She is a treaure and I am so glad to call her a friend.

Peace and love to all,

Phil

My cousin CT Robinson is a songwriter??

2010-03-02T16:54:00.004-06:00

I thought I would share the story of how I reconnected with my cousin CT Robinson. I have lived in Nashville since 2002 and in that time I have written and recorded a lot of music, but all along I wanted to find a good co writer. In an earlier post, I wrote about how co writing is worse than dating. And just like dating, when you finally give up looking...BOOM...in walks the person you were meant to find all along.

Well, late last year when we moved to Franklin I decided that I was in this thing alone. I just had to buckle down and do it all by myself. I don't need a co writer anyway. That same week, my Mom called me and said, "Did you know your cousin Teddy is a songwriter and sings?" I just kinda laughed and said no.

So, I found him on myspace, listened to his music and sent him a message. Now I hadn't seen my cousin CT (I knew him as Teddy) in 20 years. He was also a cool kid, but now he is a great writer, singer and guitar player. EXACTLY what I was looking for. I knew this had to be God's timing.

Long story short, CT and I are making plans to write, record and perform all over town. It has been wonderful reconnecting with my long, lost cousin. We played our first show together last week at the Commodore Sports Grille and it went great. We have many things planned for this year.

Keep the faith people, you never know what is right around the corner.

Peace and love,

Phil

Now this guy is a Cardinal baseball fan!!

2010-02-21T14:14:00.001-06:00

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This is an actual satelite photo from google maps. This guy takes being a St. Louis Cardinal fan to a whole new level. So cool!!

Peace,

Phil

"On the Wall" a short story by Cagney Bennett

2010-02-14T20:37:00.004-06:00

"On the Wall"

By Cagney Bennett

She had been gone a few weeks now. The only thing I felt was emptiness. And I think the wind felt the same. It whipped around me, through me. Biting my cheeks and lips. Telling me it was going to rain. I had never felt this cold before. And alone.

Alone, a word I associated to old people. I didn't think I'd be that alone.

It was probably a month before I could go through her things. Her house, which still smelled like her, was like a dead body. I didn't want to go near it, afraid of what I might find. But that morning, I took a deep breath, and walked quickly to her house. I was only a few blocks away. I had decided to stay in a hotel for now. How could I handle the ghosts of her memories floating the hallways? When I entered the house, I turned on all the lights. I wanted to scare her ghosts away.

I tread carefully into the living room. I had been in this house millions of times, yet, I felt hesitant to touch anything. The only picture of her sat on an end table. I tried not to look at it, but I couldn't help myself. I squatted down and looked at it face to face.

"Momma"

There was no words to tell her. To describe how it felt to be alone. But maybe she already knew. She had only me for twenty years. And I hadn't always been wonderful company. On that thought, I stood up quickly. I didn't want to think about her pain anymore. I walked out of the room.

When I heard a crash and glass breaking, I screamed. But, it was only the picture of her. I must have knocked it or something else... For a second, I stood there, staring. Then, I bent and started to pick up the pieces of glass. The glass was shattered and the frame bent. I started to take the picture out of the frame with the intent of putting it another. But another picture was behind the picture of my mother. A man, standing proud in uniform and smiling at the camera. A man..maybe my mother wasn't always alone.

For a second, I grasped something in my memory. A chance for understanding. This wasn't the first time I had found this picture. In a closet along with musty envelopes. Envelopes addressed to my mother. But I was only seven years, I didn't understand. I was proud of my discovery and showed the picture and letters to my mother. My mother said she threw them out. "Trash...pure trash." Was there resentment in her voice? I could no longer remember the sound.

I turned the picture over and there, in my mother's print, was the man's name. John Hull. My mother had never mentioned that name. Or any name at all. It had always been just me and her. My Momma.

"Catherine?""Yes, momma?"

"You are loved, always will be. Please don't forget that."

"I know you love me, Momma." She smiled to herself.

"We'll be watching you from up there. We love you very much."

I never thought to ask who We were before she closed her eyes for the last time. I sat there looking at that picture for a long time before deciding what to do.

I made sure to get a window seat on the plane. I always enjoyed looking over the tiny land as we rise higher and higher. The airport wasn't crowded so, I made my way quickly out of there. I hadn't brought much, but I had forgotten an umbrella. It was drizzling when I walked outside. I stepped slowly, almost dreading what I had to do. In the airport, I had picked up some flowers. Not knowing what he would want with flowers, I carried them with hope.

When I arrived, there was no one else around. I looked for his name in the book, carefully. What if it wasn't there? But it was there in thick black ink, Hull, John. I took several deep breaths and felt the first drops of rain. I started to march up the long hill and the tears gathered in my eyes. The butterflies in my stomach intensified. I almost turned back. But it was too late now, I was here.

I put my hand on the smooth rock of the soaring wall. I traced his name, surrounded by thousands of others. I set the flowers down, now wet from my tears and the rain. But they looked beautiful. I laid my forehead on the wall and let my tears glide over his name. I wished I had known him. But the pride for him and what he had done was too strong and I couldn't feel regret.

"Daddy"

I kissed the letters engraved on the wet marble. And said good-bye to his name on the wall.

Now if you have read down this far, you can see that my daughter is a great writer. A few years ago, I wrote a song called, "Daddy". I sent Cagney the lyrics to let her read them. About an hour later, she sends me back this wonderful story. Listen to the song if you would like. I appreciate you taking the time to read my blog.

Click on the link to hear "Daddy".

Prayers for Brandt McCarville...

2010-02-06T10:15:00.003-06:00

My nephew's best friend is battling cancer and needs your prayers, positive energy, love and good thoughts. His name is Brandt. Read his story here. He is one of the coolest people I have ever met and he just found out he is going to be a Dad!!

Keep the faith man. May God continue to bless you with strength, energy, love and healing.

Phil

The house of mirrors...

2010-02-05T10:46:00.001-06:00

The House of 1000 Mirrors

A Japanese Folktale

Long ago in a small, far away village, there was a place known as the House of 1000 Mirrors. A small, happy little dog learned of this place and decided to visit. When he arrived, he bounced happily up the stairs to the doorway of the house. He looked through the doorway with his ears lifted high and his tail wagging as fast as it could. To his great surprise, he found himself staring at 1000 other happy little dogs with their tails wagging just as fast as his. He smiled a great smile, and was answered with 1000 great smiles just as warm and friendly. As he left the house, he thought to himself, "This is a wonderful place. I will come back and visit it often.

"In this same village, another little dog, who was not quite as happy as the first one, decided to visit the house. He slowly climbed the stairs and hung his head low as he looked into the door. When he saw the 1000 unfriendly looking dogs staring back at him, he growled at them and was horrified to see 1000 little dogs growling back at him. As he left, he thought to himself, "That is a horrible place, and I will never go back there again."

All the faces in the world are mirrors. What kind of reflections do you see in the faces of the people you meet?

Peace, love and FUN,

Phil

The Hopeful Pumpkin

2010-01-20T10:29:00.003-06:00

Be sure to check out my Daughter's blog. It is really cool what she is doing. Her name is Cagney Bennett and she is amazing.

Check it out and tell her I sent you.

Peace,

Phil

You must visit Leiper's Fork, Tennessee

2010-01-20T10:12:00.003-06:00

This past weekend, the little woman and I took a Sunday drive out to Leiper's Fork, Tennessee just a few miles outside of Franklin. We ate at a wonderful cafe, visited an art gallery, hit a few antique stores and wound up in Puckett's Grocery. I have to say that I fell in love with the little village of Leiper's fork and will be visiting often. That was the coolest 3 hours I have spent in a long time.

Check it out on your next trip to the Nashville area. I highly recommend it!!

Peace and love,

Phil

Too cold to go out, might as well write some music...

2010-01-08T15:45:00.003-06:00

Happy belated New Year to you all. We have had some seriously cold weather here in Franklin, Tennessee. So I have spent most of the week inside playing my guitar and watching the squirrels and birds play in the back yard. I had a few unexpected days off and I really tried to make the most of them.

There is something spiritual about sitting in a quiet house and playing guitar. I swear the squirrels outside gather around the back deck and listen to me. They make a great audience.

So I am working on a few songs and trying to finish a few others. I like that my fingers are hurting from playing so much this week. I am also practising up for a songwriter night at The Commodore Grill on February 21st. I will be joined by CT Robinson, a long-lost cousin that I reconnected with last month. (More on that later)

So stay warm, enjoy the winter while it lasts and keep writing. Also, keep the faith. 2010 is going to be an awesome year.

Peace,

Phil

2010-01-04T19:59:00.003-06:00

Let me introduce you to Brodie Fisher. He is the newest addition to the family and he was born on January 3rd at 2:14 am. He is my step-grandson and as I was holding this tiny little guy, I was thinking. This baby is the closest thing to God you can hold. He came straight from heaven.

I cannot wait to watch this little guy grow up. What a great way to start out 2010.

Peace and joy to all,

Phil

Although it's been said...

2009-12-24T10:23:00.002-06:00

Although it's been said many times, many ways...Merry Christmas to you.
I'll leave you with this thought of inspiration. Even the classic song "White Christmas" started as an idea in Irving Berlin's head. Don't stop believing in your ideas.

God bless you all and Merry Christmas,

Phil

"Ashokan farewell" My favorite violin piece.

2009-12-04T18:31:00.003-06:00

Ashokan Farewell
by 123for_me

This song inspires me, makes me cry sometimes but mostly makes me happy. I remember the first time I heard this song. I was playing drums at the Cass County Opry, a country music show in the Kansas City area, when the fiddle player takes off playing it. It was one of those moments when you realize that music comes straight from God.

I also remember another time when Kristi and I were walking down Broadway in Nashville. We passed a young lady playing fiddle for tips and just as we got in front of her, she starts playing "Ashokan Farewell". Of course it hit me like a ton of bricks because I hadn't heard it in so long. I tried to explain why that song was so special to me, but I couldn't find the words. I just tipped the lady, wiped away a few tears and kept walking. It was almost like she knew it was my favorite song.

Jay Ungar wrote this back in 1982 after the annual music retreat ended. It was also picked up and used in the PBS series on the civil war.

I found this video of a really talented kid playing the song. He really did it justice.

Enjoy and as always...keep the faith.

Phil

If you could write your own eulogy...

2009-11-27T09:07:00.004-06:00

What defines you? What will people say about you when you leave this world?

I ponder this from time to time. I think people would say that I was funny because I love to make people laugh. I think people would say I was a positive person. I always try to look on the bright side; the glass is half full and not half empty. I think they will say I was talented, generous and caring.

But when my life comes to an end, what I want the most is for somebody to say, "Phil made a difference in my life." And to all of you that have made a difference in my life, thank you!

Peace and joy,

Phil

Sweeping away the leaves...

2009-11-21T10:14:00.003-06:00

Well, the move to Franklin, Tennessee is done and the unpacking is almost done. Moving always leaves me feeling weird. As I was packing the stuff I have been dragging around for years, I am reminded of previous moves, old friends and lost loved ones. As I decluttered, I threw away some things and gave away a lot of stuff. I viewed it as a clean slate...a new start.

Kristi and I have dreamed of living in Franklin for three years now and it has finally happened. The way it all came together was nothing short of amazing and totally inspirational. I have already felt a rush of creativity that comes from knowing that a higher power is truly in control of this crazy journey I am on.

So as I swept away the leaves from the deck that is on the back of our new home this morning, I am happy...truly happy. As I draw from this happiness and this new rush of creativity, I cannot wait to hear the songs I write. I hope to share them with you in the near future.

I wish everyone a happy and beautiful weekend.

Phil

2009-11-11T17:25:00.002-06:00

Wayne Dyer quote of the day.

"I only allow that which is good into my life.
No one can depress you. No one can make you anxious. No one can hurt your feelings. No one can make you anything other than what you allow inside."

Today I choose to be happy! I am blessed beyond belief and I choose to focus on that. I hope your day is awesome.

Love and peace,

Phil

My 100th post...

2009-11-07T09:27:00.002-06:00

I love this picture of my Dad and my son. This week was the 10th anniversary of Dad's passing. I still remember the last thing he said to me, "I love you, son".

That's if for now. Have a blessed weekend,

Phil

Wayne Dyer quote of the day

2009-10-31T07:44:00.003-05:00

"Abundance is not something we acquire. It is something we tune into"
Wayne Dyer

Today I choose to tune into the abundance that is all around me. If you can't find beauty around you today, then look harder. Fall is my favorite time of year because all the colors and the weather. Even though it has rained almost everyday this week, it makes me appreciate when the sun does pop out.

I hope you all find beauty in your world today. It's all around us.

Peace and love,

Phil

Thank you is a powerful word...

2009-10-23T16:58:00.002-05:00

When you wake up in the morning and your feet hit the floor...say "thank you". Thank you for another morning and another chance to make a difference is someone's life.

When you are walking to your job, say "thank you". Thank you for my legs, for my job, the money I make, the food it buys and the oppportunity to choose my own career path.
When you are driving home...say "thank you" for my vehicle and that it gets me home safe. Thank you for a roof over my head, thank you for a bed to sleep in, running water and time away from work.

I could go on and on, but sometimes we need to be reminded just how fortunate we are. We are very blessed and if we continue to thank God for all these blessings, more will be given to us. I truly believe this.

This is why it is so important to be happy. We attract what we think about. If we think, "God I am blessed...thank you!!", you will attract more reasons to be grateful. Focus on what you do have and you will be blessed even more.

Peace, love and joy to all,

Phil

Happiness...

2009-10-17T11:20:00.004-05:00

How many times have we said, "I'll be happy when..."? I read last week that you can't find light by analyzing the darkness. The same could be said for happiness. You can't find happiness by analyzing your unhappiness. It's been my opinion for a while now that happiness is not a pursuit, it's a choice. Did that new house make you happy? Did that new job make you happy? Did lower gas prices make you happy?

I found happiness inside me when I made a conscious choice to eleminate the negatives from my life and focus on my blessings. What is funny is that it was there all along surrounded by a shroud of negativity, fear and resentment. Since I decided to focus on my blessings, more and more wonderful things have happened.

So yeah I am happy we found a house in Franklin, TN. But it only made me...happier.

I wish you happiness and joy,

Phil

"The prayer of Jabez"

2009-10-05T17:31:00.000-05:00

And Jabez called on the God of Israel saying,

"Oh that You would bless me indeed, and enlarge my territory, that Your hand would be with me, and that You would keep me from evil, that I may not cause pain!"

So God granted him what he requested.

Peace, joy and love to all who read this,

Phil

Do it anyway...

2009-10-01T18:59:00.002-05:00

The verses below reportedly were written on the wall of Mother Teresa's home for children in Calcutta, India, and are widely attributed to her.

People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives.

Be kind anyway.If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies. Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway.

What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight. Create anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous. Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten. Do good anyway.

Give the best you have, and it will never be enough. Give your best anyway.

In the final analysis, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.

This is the Universe!!

2009-09-12T08:12:00.000-05:00

This is the Universe!

Today I will be recording your every thought and emotion no matter
how good or bad, no matter how generous or stingy, no matter how helpful or hurtful it may be.

And everything I record...will be played back for you...as sooon as possible, as some type of physical manifestation in Time and Space.

Thank you...that is all.

The Universe/Mike Dooley

Run Matty run!!

2009-08-30T09:58:00.005-05:00

Well, my wonderful nephew Matty is off to Syracuse. He ran cross country in high school setting records along the way. He is now at Syracuse University and I expect his success to continue. This picture was taken at his signing ceremony. My brother Matt and my sister-in-law Karen have been the most supportive parents. That's them seated to his left.

Here is Matty running like the wind!

We will miss you, but we know that you will have the time of your life. I just wanted to share him with you all and wish him the best of luck.

I love you man!!

Uncle Phil

My new guitar...

2009-08-09T12:06:00.002-05:00

I am always telling my kids to follow your dreams and be specific as to what it is you want. Well, I am following my own advice and showing you the guitar I will buy sometime in the very near future.

Now I have played a million guitars in my time...Martins, Taylors, Gibsons, but I swear the Larrivee LV-09 was made for me. I drop by the music store to visit her from time to time. she will be mine very soon. Yes, the guitar is a she and her name is Julieanna.

Have a great day and keep dreaming,

Phil

Keep writing...

2009-08-05T19:13:00.002-05:00

It's been a productive year so far, but that is very subjective. My goal at the first of the year was to write 6 new songs this year. I am well on the way to beating my goal. What is even better...I think I am writer better than ever. I hope to hit the studio in the next month and will have some new music to upload.

So, my advice to you...keep writing. Even if you don't like what you are writing. This too will pass. I visualize a pipeline, full of music. The music that is coming out of the pipeline right now came from thoughts I had about a year ago. Even if I don't like what's coming out, I keep going because there is better stuff right behind just waiting to come out.

So, keep the faith and keep writing.

Peace and love to all,

Phil

A fun night at The Commodore...

2009-07-28T19:45:00.005-05:00

Well the evening at The Commodore went very well.

Debi Champion put together another great evening of entertainment. I tried out a few new songs I had recently written. Overall I was pleased with my performance, but really enjoyed meeting Greg Sawyer and Lizzy McAvoy. They both performed performed in my round and made it very enjoyable to be on stage with them.

Lizzy McAvoy is a wonderful young, talented singer/songwriter. I was impressed with her guitar playing and vocals. It is so cool to see such young talent here in town pursuing their dream. Go listen to her music by clicking on her name.

Greg Sawyer is my kind of songwriter. His lyrics were memorable, clever and well thought out. His guitar playing just makes it that much better. He even played on one of my songs. Look this guy up if you want to hear some good music.

Thanks to Debi Champion for inviting me to participate. I hope to be playing again very soon.

Until then, keep writing and keep the faith,

Phil

Back to songwriting for a minute...

2009-07-23T19:21:00.002-05:00

Well, this blog is supposed to be about songwriting, but lately I have been talking more about my daughter and other wonderful things in my life.

But, I am playing in a round at Debi Champion's songwriter night at The Commodore Grill on West End in Nashville. I go on at 7:00 pm. If you have never been to a songwriter night, basically four writers get up and play three songs each. It is a wonderful way to meet the people who make the music. It's one of my favorite things to do.

So, make it out if you can.

Peace and love to all,

Phil

What inspires me....

2009-07-19T09:22:00.003-05:00

"There is a voice in the Universe urging us to remember our purpose for being on this great Earth. This is the voice of inspiration, which is within each and every one of us." Wayne Dyer

What inspires me? Well a lot of things do, but I will give you the short list of this week.

1. Getting to see the Nashville skyline everyday. I remember the first time I drove into Nashville and knew I had found my home.

2. Dreamers. I'm a dreamer and I am engaged to a dreamer and love that she thinks there is much more to life than a 9 to 5 job. She inspires me. Check out her blog sometime.

3. My daughter of course. I think you all know how I feel about her. When she moved to college, I told her I was moving to Nashville. She said, "It's about time Dad!" She understands me.

4. The mountains. We live 4 hours from the Great Smokey Mountains. What a beautiful place to get away to; and the scenery is amazing all year around.

5. All the random people I cross paths with everyday. I had a wonderful conversation with a homeless guy on the corner yesterday. I didn't have any cash, so I rolled my window down and talked to him while I was waiting on the light to change. I might not have made his day, but it made mine.

6. My Mother. She is one of those Mothers that would support me even if I was on death row for killing a Nun.(she wasn't really a nun, just a hooker dressed up like a nun, but they...nevermind) I don't give Mom enough credit for all she has done for me.

Finally, it's Wayne Dyer that put me on the path toward self actualization. I don't really know exactly what that means. I just know when I listen to that small voice inside, that little piece of God that lives in all of us...I am happier.

Peace and joy!!

Phil

Giving her away...part two

2009-07-06T14:08:00.002-05:00

Well the first round of pictures from last weekend's Cagney & Alex Wedding Celebration have begun to roll in. I wanted to share a few with you all.

Here she is, the bride to be getting ready for her big day. My niece Katy is in total control. Isn't my daughter beautiful?

This picture was taken by my Mother. The wedding was held outside on a beautiful summer evening. I will never forget how it felt to walk her down the isle.

What a great-looking and happy couple. It was like a wonderful movie that you wish you could watch over and over again.

Happiness, love and beauty everywhere. Her bridesmaids were her friend Julie and my nieces Karmen and Katy. Alex's best men were his friend Chris and his two younger brothers.

And of course we posed for this, but what a special moment for me and my daughter. Cagney has been the light of my life for over 25 years and giving her away was very special to say the least. I wish them a lifetime of happiness and joy. Okay, I am tearing up again, so I will close for now.

This is the song her and I danced to. Click on it and listen to Michael Buble sing about my daughter Cagney.

Peace, love and joy to all,

Phil

Giving her away...

2009-06-29T07:44:00.002-05:00

Well, it was a perfect ceremony and a perfect wedding celebration. I will post more pictures when I get them, but here was the highlight for me. Dancing with my daughter on a beautiful summer night. We danced to "Daddy's little girl" sung by Michael Buble.

There are more stories to tell, but I just wanted to post this picture.

I love you Cagney,

Dad

Three days until the wedding...

2009-06-23T15:50:00.002-05:00

Well Friday is the big day; my daughter is getting married. I think it is going to be a wonderful event. I have a to-do list that keeps growing, but it will all get done.

I still haven't heard from Vince Gill, so I don't guess he'll be singing at her wedding like I promised her years ago...but she totally understands. I will be there and that is all that matters.

I cannot wait for the celebration.

Peace and joy to all,

Phil

He was a really good man...

2009-06-21T08:44:00.004-05:00

Happy Father's day!

I wanted to take a few minutes to tell you about my Dad.

His name was Frank, but he went by his middle name, Gale. He was born in 1939, left high school at 16 to work in the saw mill with his father. He met and married my Mom when he was 19. He raised three boys, was a preacher most of my childhood, but drove a truck most his life. Him and my mom divorced when I was 19.

Other than a few years after the divorce, my Dad was always there. He was an old-school, hard core father that didn't mind giving you an ass whooping and always spoke his mind. But you always knew where you stood with Dad. A hug or a pat on the back from Dad meant the world because they were few and far between.

In his later years, he mellowed somewhat but he would still rip you a new one if he thought you needed it. He was proud of his boys and of all his grandchildren. He rarely told us to our face, but when I found out he had been bragging on me to some random stranger...it meant the world to me.

He died of a heart attack at 60 years of age. He was in his truck waiting to deliver a load of steel. I know it sounds like a country song, but that's how he wanted it. He loved his Semi.

So, the next time you are trying to get around a tractor-trailor out on the highway, just back off and let them own the road for a minute; do that in honor of my Dad.

I posted a picture of the oldest oak tree in Missouri as a symbol. Dad was grounded, rooted, strong and could not be moved. He was frustrating as hell sometimes, but that was just a part of the whole. He was a good father, a really good person and a friend to anyone.

He was a really good man.

Peace,

Phil

I think I saw an Angel...

2009-06-17T06:52:00.002-05:00

I stopped off at my favorite Mapco to use their facilities and trade in a couple lottery tickets. The nice lady behind the counter asked me if I would like to register for a free gas card. So while I am filling out the form, I overhear this kid talking to the cashier about trying to get home to Ohio and not having enough money. He was trying to get the lady to take his Dad's credit card number over the phone to pay for gas. I guess it is against company policy to do that, so he started to walk out just as I had finished registering.

I caught him at the door and asked him what the problem was. He just needed some cash to get home because no gas station will take a credit card over the phone. So I told him I could spare a twenty, but I would have to run down the road to the bank first. He was thanking me and on the verge of tears when he asked me if he could have my address so he could send it back to me. I said, no just help the next person when you can.

Just then a very tall black man walked out the door and stopped, asking him if he was okay. The kid said he was fine now and I added that I was going to run down the rown and get him some cash. The man, reminded me of Morgan Freeman by the way, held out his hand and asked the kid,

"You need some cheese?"

He stuttered a bit and said, "Yeah, but this guy is gonna...".

"Do you need some cheese?", the man said if a fairly demanding voice.

"Yes", the kid said as the man handed him a twenty. When he was walking around the front of his cadillac, the kid asked if he could do anything for him.

"Just help the next man that needs it", he said without pausing or making eye contact.

Now I don't know much, but I do know that tall black man was NOT in the store when I was filling out the form for the gas card or when the kid was telling his story to the cashier. This guy could not have hidden behind a rack of Cheetos. I do know that there was something incredibly odd about the whole situation and how it played out. It was like a scene out of a movie. I get chills just writing about it.

I know that I will never forget that kid's face as he was thanking me or taking the money from the black man. I have never heard money referred to as cheese, but I love it now. So the next time you see someone that might be in need, ask them if they need some cheese and stick a twenty in their hand.

Peace,

Phil

I do believe...

2009-06-12T07:37:00.003-05:00

Just when I thought my flow of creativity had come to a screeching halt, I had the most incredible inspiration yesterday. This song idea hit me like a ton of bricks.

Now it's half written and I think it going to be awesome.

Thank you all for reading my blog and for taking the time to leave a comment. I appreciate each and every one of you. And to Cagney, my amazing daughter who always knows exactly what to say at the perfect time...thank you. But a special thanks goes to Kristi for always supporting me and believing in me.

We are all very blessed!

Peace,

Phil

Being a dreamer is not easy...

2009-06-09T08:33:00.002-05:00

Some days I wish my dream was to be a school teacher. It's really simple; you go to school, get your degree, get a job as a teacher. Boom...dream fulfilled. Or maybe I could dream of being a cab driver. It's even easier; get your license and get a cab driver job. Boom...dream realized. Somedays I want to just say screw it all and go get a job at a gas station. Now that's a dream come true!!

There is this picture of me when I was two years old. I am holding my Bugs Bunny guitar and smiling. I was so happy and I know I had the dream even back then. Maybe my life would have been easier if I had a toy stethoscope around my neck instead of a guitar.

But then I think back to the first time I saw a set of drums sitting in a studio. I was 10 and our family was about to record The Bennett Family gospel album. I remember watching the sound engineers and the musicians and just falling in love with it all. It was not long after that I was using my Mother's tupperware to teach myself to play drums.

So, I have this deep, philosphical question for anyone who cares to read this. Why would God put this burning desire to play, write and record music deep in my soul only to put so many obstacles in my path?

Now that's a thinker isn't it?

Peace,

Phil

My Birthday Ribeye Steak...

2009-06-06T10:08:00.002-05:00

This was just too funny not to share with everyone. I had the last of the Birthday celebrations last night with my Mom and Step-dad Al. He wanted to cook my favorite steak for my birthday. I'll take a ribeye steak over cake anyday...hahaha

Thanks to everyone for making this a wonderful Birthday.

Peace and joy,

Phil

Jenny Gill rocked the Listening Room!

2009-06-02T08:31:00.004-05:00

When Kristi and I caught Jenny's show at The Listening Room last year, I was not aware that she was so talented. I was looking for a place for us to go one weekend and thought it would be cool to see her perform. Since then we have gone from being curious listeners to full-fledged fans.

The night started with an acoustic set by Audrey Spillman. I was blown away from her first note. She has a wonderful, soulful style that reminds me of singers like Patty Smyth. This is one talented gal.

Sam Brooker accompanied her with some very tasteful acoustic guitar playing and harmony vocals. Even though I didn't want her set to end, I couldn't wait to hear Jenny sing with her band.

We were not disappointed! Her song selection was awesome and her R&B style is really amazing. I think my favorite song of the night was her version of the Bill Wither's song "Use me".

But the best moment of the night for me was when she took a minute to sing "Happy Birthday" to me. I wish I didn't have such a goofy look on my face in this picture...hahaha.

You know it is a good show when you don't want it to end. I can't wait to catch her next show at 12th & Porter later this month. She is one classy lady.

Thank you Jenny for a memorable Birthday! Oh...it was very cool meeting your Dad too. That was just icing on a very special Birthday cake.

Peace,

Phil

"I'll remember you" A Memorial Day song

2009-05-25T08:55:00.002-05:00

I wrote this song about my Dad. The lyrics are simple and so is the message. I simply wanted to say that whatever happens with the rest of my life, I will always remember you.

Thanks Dad

I've already hit the lottery...

2009-05-21T07:44:00.002-05:00

Kris and I were talking about what we would do and where we would live if we hit the Powerball (which is up to 192 million by the way). It made me realize how blessed I am to be living where I always wanted to live. The truth is, if we hit the powerball, we would stay in Nashville, but I am sure we would have a vacation home in Asheville, North Carolina and one in Kansas City. And we might raise our standard of living just a wee bit, but I love this town.

So today when I was thinking about all the wonderful things we have to be thankful for, I gave double thanks for this wonderful city with all its beauty.

Where would you live if you won the lottery?

Peace,

Phil

She's getting married...

2009-05-13T09:18:00.002-05:00

Let me introduce you to my daughter Cagney and brag a bit. She's 25 years old, a wonderful person, a dog lover, graduated High School with a 4.0 gpa, got her degree in Chemistry, works as a Chemist, plays guitar, plays piano, sings beautifully, is a songwriter, writes the most amazing short stories and poetry, loves her Father, is kind to stangers and next month...she's getting married.

Words can't say how proud I am to have such a daughter. That's all I had to say today.

Peace,

Phil

From Vince Gill to James Taylor...

2009-05-08T07:52:00.002-05:00

Well after seeing Vince Gill and friends at the Ryman last week, I thought my month was complete. It looks like we are going to see my other hero James Taylor at TPAC (Tennessee Performing Arts Center) next week. I have never seen James Taylor in concert before, although Kristi has. I did however meet him once.

I was working at a truck stop near Columbia, Missouri while I was attending Mizzou. I was working the late shift one night when I saw a tour bus pull in. They pulled to the diesel pumps which could only be seen through a crappy video camera. So I had no idea who it was. As I waited the anticipation was killing me. I knew it was someone famous.

So a few minutes later, in walks James Taylor. I was speechless. He asked where the payphones were...I told him and he walked on. A few minutes later about four guys walked in, so I struck up a conversation.

"That was James Taylor...right", I asked them. "And you guys are the band"?

I had to ask just to make sure I wasn't talking to some random travelers stopping in to annoy me. They said yes and we had a good conversation.

So, that's my brush with greatness and now I get to see him in concert here in Nashville. Life is grand!!!

Peace,

Phil

Debi Champion's Songwriter Night at The Commodore

2009-05-05T12:34:00.004-05:00

If you are a songwriter in Nashville, then you have heard of Debi Champion. If you are not a songwriter, but are a music lover, then you need to visit the Commodore Sports Bar on West End in Nashville. Debi Champion hosts one of the longest-running songwriter nights in Nashville.

Every night she features new songwriters, established writers and some that have had many hit songs recorded. It is a great opportunity to hear what's right around the corner for the music industry here in Nashville. It is also an opportunity for the new songwriters to get up and showcase their music.

The first time I got up I was so nervous my legs were shaking. But Debi made me feel right at home. I have played there many times since moving to town and will play there again in the future. (As soon as I get these last new songs finished) I have met so many wonderful people there, but Debi is the best and so incredibly supportive.

If you are visiting from out of town, check it out. Tell Debi I sent you.

Peace,

Phil

20 things that make me HAPPY...

2009-05-03T12:25:00.005-05:00

Over at The Inspired Room, they are challenging us to focus on all the good in our lives by posting 20 things that make you happy. By now you all know I love this line of thinking. I have always said, "Happiness is not a pursuit, it's a choice...choose happy".

Here are my 20 random things that make me happy in no particular order.
1. Going to a St. Louis Cardinal Baseball game
2. Acoustic Guitars
3. Going to junk stores
4. Scratching off a winning lottery ticket
5. Living in Nashville
6. Writing and recording a killer song
7. Songwriter nights
8. Bone-in ribeye steak
9. Sam Adams Beer and pizza
10. My family...really, they make me happy most of the time. :)
11. Missouri road trips
12. The Great smokey Mountains
13. My bobblehead collection (I have about 75 of them)
14. Going to auctions
15. The Ryman auditorium (Check my blog if you don't know what that is)
16. Friday nights with Kristi (actually every night, but Fridays are the best)
17. Sunsets
18. Singing with my daughter
19. BBQ/pulled pork/ribs/wings...how about just good FOOD
20. Valet parking

My daughter and I singing at a songwriter night in Nashville.

I could go on and on and on. Life is good. We are so blessed.

Peace, joy and happiness to all,

Phil

What you give away...

2009-05-02T13:26:00.002-05:00

I am sure all of you have been approached by someone that appears to be homeless. They always ask me for some change. I can be standing in a crowd of 15 people and they always come up to me. I guess I have a nice face or something. I usually give them a buck or two.

The other day I was on the ramp off of I-24 at Shelby Street. There was an older guy holding a sign. I rolled down my window, handed him a ten dollar bill and had a great conversation with him. I think I made his day.

I was at a bank on West End yesterday. The lady seemed nice, so I started a conversation with her about how blessed we all are. As I left, I said, "God bless you". She said, "Thanks, I needed that...you just made my day."

I am not telling these stories to make myself look good, I'm just saying that I think we should take the time to make someone's day. Sometimes all it takes is a smile or a kind word.

I believe it comes back to you ten fold.

Peace,

Phil